With one child in year 12 and the other in year 8, you can imagine there's quite a lot of homework going on at our house.
For the last few weeks we've had assignments up to our armpits and the weird thing is, I'm lovin' every minute of it!
The same can't be said for them of course. They're feeling the pressure that assessment time can bring. But I'm loving that I can help them chunk things down to create an assignment plan and then getting to edit their work and learn a whole bunch of new things in the process.
When it comes to school work my daughter has always been very independent. She just gets it done. Since she's been in senior school I've been a little more hands on during the final stages of each assignment just to put my editing skills to good use. Without changing her thoughts or angle in any way, I simply make sure she's addressed the entire question and check her grammar, spelling and punctuation. Sometimes she gets a bit stuck mid assignment so we brainstorm together to get her back on track. I'm learning so much in the process!
As for my son, it's no surprise that he requires more guidance. Dyslexia will do that to you. So with his work I'm involved at the beginning, middle and end to help set up the assignment, check on progress and edit. We spend an hour every morning getting him set up for each day at school, plan his independent learning guide together, finish any work he didn't get done in class and work on any assessments that might be due.
I have to be honest, I'm really enjoying the time I'm getting to spend with my kids in this way.
It hasn't always been enjoyable. There have been days/weeks/years where home learning has been stressful for everyone. But the type of work they get to do these days is actually really interesting and I'm loving the learning.
In the past two months I've learned:
- About Rube Goldberg machines and the transfers and transitions of energy.
- How to do BODMAS and how two negatives make a positive, and powers and square roots and multiplying fractions.
- How to create a story mountain and some new tips and tricks on creative writing
- All about the Australian Stock Exchange and how to compare financial reports of some of Australia's biggest retail companies (and realising that their profits are actually quite low)
- About pop culture in China, the music they like, the fashion, the fast food available (KFC is their fave), their version of Facebook/social media and the history of soccer in that country.
- All about sociology and the influence certain TV shows can have on a culture and social issues.
- The ins and outs of Kangaroo Island and why it's a cool spot to visit
That's not a bad knowledge haul for a Deep Fried woman of the world like me. As they grow and develop in their knowledge, I feel that I'm growing and developing in mine also.
Which is important as we get older. Just because we reach a certain age, it doesn't mean we should stop learning. It's that learning and growth that keeps us from plateauing and feeling stuck. We need the little peaks and troughs of growth to keep bleeping on the screen to show we are still living!
So this week I'm lovin' homework. I'm lovin' the growth it's giving my kids and the growth it's giving me in the process. Not to mention the precious time we get to spend together.
Is it possible to love homework?
What homework is going on in your house right now?
Have you learned something new in the last few weeks?
Do you help your kids with their assignments?
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